The guardians who court disaster for our children
BY ANDREW JOHN TEAGUE…
What is a guardian lawyer?
Well, the guardian lawyer represents children.
The guardian is supposed to act in the best interest of the children’s well-being and safety – physically, emotionally and psychologically.
The guardian lawyer is a family court lawyer.
He or she could be working for a parent in one case – and they could be working for Cafcass in the next.
And Cafcass normally knows the lawyers it intends to use. Yet, Cafcass is meant to be impartial in family court cases.
The guardian lawyer is there to represent the children in the family courts. But how can this happen? They are just a bunch of people who don’t actually know the child or the family, making decisions on future and life.
And then there is the courtroom itself, a place full of people who have no idea what the children really want.
Nor do they care.
It’s like the beginning of the end for many many children, children whose hearts are broken inside, children whose minds are broken inside. Their healthy relationships have been dissolved.
How can this be in the best interests of children?
All children should have the right to a family, the right to be in a happy relationship with both parents and, only if there is risk of harm, should there be any reason to doubt that relationship. Should a relationship actually be damaged on guess work?
This is something worrying we have come across over the years.
Teenagers are lost behind the secret Family Court doors.
Teens who have been unduly influenced by the maligning parent, forced to be emotionally and psychologically reliant, obsessed with hurting, torturing, destroying the absent parent.
It only spells disaster for children.
They are teens who, in the very near future, will be rap-a-tap-tapping on the mental health door. That’s if they are lucky enough to make it there.
For most of their lives these you ng people have seen the parents entrenched in family court proceedings. The court arenas are the battle field for the family destroyers with judges giving the thumbs down.
And here will be the classic example of child-psychology splitting.
There are certainly a number of questions that would need to be asked about why the children have reached this point. The thing is, we do not ask these children the right questions, leading to a future of devastation, distrust, attachment disorders, low self-esteem and many more negatives.
A big question I’d like to ask is why the likes Cafcass and the children’s lawyers is, why do they choose to shrug their shoulders and simply say ‘what can we do?’.
Transitions… children go through transitions through out their lives. I cannot believe the likes of Cafcass and guardian lawyers desert the children when they need them most. Feels like them saying f*** it, not our problem that they don’t see the absent parent!
Remember that what we know for a fact is that these children have spent most of their time going through the secret Family Court doors.
Three months of a child being indoctrinated and brainwashed. If this has happened it can take anything from three months or longer to get the child to feel comfortable and trusting of others again.
The critical and suitable question to ask is, how do Cafcass or even guardian lawyers make the decisions for children in a 20-minute to half hour meeting with the child?
Maybe there is some kind of magical fairy dust they sprinkle over the children.
Secret family court doors and what LIES beyond them …. no child chooses to lose a parent. But though these court arenas children are forced to do just that.
We are not going to whisper, we are not going to say hush.
We are going to shout about the fact that abuse of children and absent parents runs rife throughout the family courts in every corner of this land.
And beyond.
England, Scotland, Ireland, Wales, Republic of Ireland, Europe, USA, Canada, New Zealand, Australia, India, Pakistan … so many countries where children’s lives are dismantled, broken and torn.
Our children deserve much much more than the ignorance and let-down they get.
End of story.
Children 1st every time – even teens!
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