Deadly price of fighting the family courts and your ex to spend time with your child…
Sadly, for the last four years myself and many others have been in the dismal position of witnessing parents in trauma.
We spend much of our time helping these poor, unfortunate parents, grandparents and other family members survive the crisis they are in.
Day in day out, night after night, we spend hours helping and supporting members of D.A.D.s and NAAP.
A team, that’s what we have. A team dedicated to helping others … but it is worth remembering that our admins have also had to struggle with their own issues and yet they spend time helping others.
And generally, the sense of desperation we all find is caused by the family courts, yes the courts that are supposed to be there to help you, not destroy you.
Family courts across the world.
Tragically one of the issues we find time and time again is suicidal tendencies.
Yes, the Secret Family Courts, operating behind closed doors – which are there to supposedly protect our children – in so many cases are driving us to our deaths.
The truth is that the family courts in their secret world actually protect the abusers. Abuse is a strong word and laws are needed to prevent it.
So, what happens when the lawmakers become the law breakers?
They become the perpetrators of non-accidental, psychological injury of children.
And that has to be a crime.
For decades parents have dredged family courts in search of help but are too often met with abuse. Yes, that word again.
It is difficult to physically reveal the signs of this abuse of children, there are no scars… no bruises.
Can you imagine for a moment being a parent battling against this kind of a system, battling for what children want?
And that’s contact with the loving, caring absent mum or dad, grandparents and family.
Could we even try to imagine what a child is going through psychologically
Struggle to deal with the trauma behind the Family Court doors. There is no help, support or guidance and many have to do their best alone along the way.
Not the best thing for any parent when already grieving for their children who are still alive. Bewildered parents struggling to deal with any simple everyday task, struggling with depression anxiety stress and
PTSD.
I have no idea what they’re going through mentally.
But the reason behind it all is fear.
Many parents have lost their mental health.
Can you imagine being a parent fighting in the family courts for what your children want while going through serious mental health issues.
Can you imagine being a parent standing in a court with your ex-partner, with their lawyers, court advisors and many others stacked against you?
While all along you have no help at all.
Because of this many parents have suicidal thoughts … they feel is the only way to eradicate the pain and suffering.”
This is why we dedicate our time to helping others.
I myself I’ve been through the draconian barbaric Family Court process. Although being successful and coming out the other side I have continued to stand by vow I made.
My vow is to stand up for every child going through trauma too. And this means saving the lives of their parents – and indeed it has come to that many many times.
The hardest thing we face is the not knowing if there’s a parent out there desperately needing our help.
This is why we post on social media, we share, we comment, we do everything we can to reach out.
The added fear of all this is the worry that people don’t come back to us.
Tragically, this has led too many poor souls being lost along the way.
Many parents feel powerless, deep in despair and trauma. Parents left feeling and believing they have left their children down.
With some people there are the signs that they may be suicidal but with others it is difficult to predict or guess they are even considering taking their lives.
They have put on a front.
They do this because they fear what the family courts will do. If you are suicidal the courts are likely to make seeing your children even more difficult.
This Catch 22 pushes and drives absent parents in to mental health problems and the courts use those mental health issues against them!
Wow! Barbaric. Draconian.
We are very lucky to reach many in time to help and support and guide them.
Sadly though, some fall along the way.
We often get to you hear about parents ‘lost’ along the way through social media. And we do sift through social media to gather as much information as we can so welfare checks can be done.
Many times myself and my admins have helped police to do these checks. Things like telephone number address name check ins any information we can get lost their social media profile helps. But it can become a hell of a task if the parents profile is in lock-down.
When a profile is locked down we gather what we can and forward it to the police. Sadly though the family court secret doors are never knocked on by the authorities. It gives you the sense that life is worthless inside there.
Heartbreaking… oh yes, I’m not ashamed to say I have shed tears.
I myself have in more than four years saved hundreds of lives helped and supported thousands upon thousands of parents, grandparents and other family members.
All this is a joint effort with our relentless admins.
I have the greatest respect for our amazing team.
What overwhelms me is the amount of members who also reach out to help. It amazes me also shows me the humanity in the world.
When a parent posts ‘I’m feeling down’, ‘I’ve had enough’ then a barrage of messages of support flood in.
That to me is truly amazing when you consider they are parents who are struggling with their own demons too.
There are so many things that I have learned along the way, so many things that inspire me to continue to save lives and save our kids.
Next time you hear about a suicide, just wonder for a moment what pushed that person over the edge?
It has been truly heartbreaking writing this article because it floods back memories and pain of so many.
Sadly, for the last four years myself and many others have been in the dismal position of witnessing parents in trauma.
We spend much of our time helping these poor, unfortunate parents, grandparents and other family members survive the crisis they are in.
Day in day out, night after night, we spend hours helping and supporting members of D.A.D.s and NAAP.
A team, that’s what we have. A team dedicated to helping others … but it is worth remembering that our admins have also had to struggle with their own issues and yet they spend time helping others.
And generally, the sense of desperation we all find is caused by the family courts, yes the courts that are supposed to be there to help you, not destroy you.
Family courts across the world.
Tragically one of the issues we find time and time again is suicidal tendencies.
Yes, the Secret Family Courts, operating behind closed doors – which are there to supposedly protect our children – in so many cases are driving us to our deaths.
The truth is that the family courts in their secret world actually protect the abusers. Abuse is a strong word and laws are needed to prevent it.
So, what happens when the lawmakers become the law breakers?
They become the perpetrators of non-accidental, psychological injury of children.
And that has to be a crime.
For decades parents have dredged family courts in search of help but are too often met with abuse. Yes, that word again.
It is difficult to physically reveal the signs of this abuse of children, there are no scars… no bruises.
Can you imagine for a moment being a parent battling against this kind of a system, battling for what children want?
And that’s contact with the loving, caring absent mum or dad, grandparents and family.
Could we even try to imagine what a child is going through psychologically?
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“Struggle to deal with the trauma behind the Family Court doors. There is no help, support or guidance and many have to do their best alone along the way.
Not the best thing for any parent when already grieving for their children who are still alive. Bewildered parents struggling to deal with any simple everyday task, struggling with depression anxiety stress and
PTSD.
I have no idea what they’re going through mentally.
But the reason behind it all is fear.
Many parents have lost their mental health.
Can you imagine being a parent fighting in the family courts for what your children want while going through serious mental health issues.
Can you imagine being a parent standing in a court with your ex-partner, with their lawyers, court advisors and many others stacked against you?
While all along you have no help at all.
Because of this many parents have suicidal thoughts … they feel is the only way to eradicate the pain and suffering.”
This is why we dedicate our time to helping others.
I myself I’ve been through the draconian barbaric Family Court process. Although being successful and coming out the other side I have continued to stand by vow I made.
My vow is to stand up for every child going through trauma too. And this means saving the lives of their parents – and indeed it has come to that many many times.
The hardest thing we face is the not knowing if there’s a parent out there desperately needing our help.
This is why we post on social media, we share, we comment, we do everything we can to reach out.
The added fear of all this is the worry that people don’t come back to us.
Tragically, this has led too many poor souls being lost along the way.
Many parents feel powerless, deep in despair and trauma. Parents left feeling and believing they have left their children down.
With some people there are the signs that they may be suicidal but with others it is difficult to predict or guess they are even considering taking their lives.
They have put on a front.
They do this because they fear what the family courts will do. If you are suicidal the courts are likely to make seeing your children even more difficult.
This Catch 22 pushes and drives absent parents in to mental health problems and the courts use those mental health issues against them!
Wow! Barbaric. Draconian.
We are very lucky to reach many in time to help and support and guide them.
Sadly though, some fall along the way.
We often get to you hear about parents ‘lost’ along the way through social media. And we do sift through social media to gather as much information as we can so welfare checks can be done.
Many times myself and my admins have helped police to do these checks. Things like telephone number address name check ins any information we can get lost their social media profile helps. But it can become a hell of a task if the parents profile is in lock-down.
When a profile is locked down we gather what we can and forward it to the police. Sadly though the family court secret doors are never knocked on by the authorities. It gives you the sense that life is worthless inside there.
Heartbreaking… oh yes, I’m not ashamed to say I have shed tears.
I myself have in more than four years saved hundreds of lives helped and supported thousands upon thousands of parents, grandparents and other family members.
All this is a joint effort with our relentless admins.
I have the greatest respect for our amazing team.
What overwhelms me is the amount of members who also reach out to help. It amazes me also shows me the humanity in the world.
When a parent posts ‘I’m feeling down’, ‘I’ve had enough’ then a barrage of messages of support flood in.
That to me is truly amazing when you consider they are parents who are struggling with their own demons too.
There are so many things that I have learned along the way, so many things that inspire me to continue to save lives and save our kids.
Next time you hear about a suicide, just wonder for a moment what pushed that person over the edge?
It has been truly heartbreaking writing this article because it floods back memories and pain of so many.
A part of what we do is #dedicatetoeducate.
As much as awareness is needed so is the desperate need to educate people AND the family courts.
A part of what we do is #dedicatetoeducate.
As much as awareness is needed so is the desperate need to educate people AND the family courts.
#parentalalienation #deadly #familycourts #dedicatetoeducate
An article which is indeed upsetting to read as it is the TRUTH. Bloody heartbreaking for children and parents. A glorified gravy train for the legal and court so called ‘professionals’. Many of whom act beyond their remit.
Experienced the family courts and so called professionals.The judges believe the untruths placed before them instead of the factual s causing many unjustified decisions.The trauma caused and causing to our children past present and future and parents left in despair and sadly loss of life in many.
The family court is in my experience and opinion not fit for purpose with separation rather than support for many family’s.
#childrenfirst
Get real the Judges are in on the humiliation for profit!
I am going through the same thing right now because of the Family Court system at King’s County Family Court. My three Court appointed attorney’s didn’t help me. I can’t even see my Son or have a relationship with him. The Court and my wife are alienating my Son from seeing me. They need to overhaul the entire system. Like it said in the article this is causing suicide. Maybe they shouldn’t let these judges and lawyers in Family Court operate with immunity.